Appreciating your spouse is an easy, modest, and exhilarating thing to do. Showing appreciation to each other is one of the secrets to a happy marriage; yet most married couples take it for granted. We fail to properly appreciate the things we do for one another. It can be easy to neglect to thank your spouse for everyday tasks that have become regular but you will find that your gratitude can modify your spouse’s view of these tasks, making them delightful especially if he or she has been feeling exhausted.
We have always acknowledged that it’s the man’s responsibility to pay school fees, give food allowance, pay house rent, take the car to the mechanic. While the woman takes care of the children, keeps the house clean, cooks the meals and so on. It might interest you to know that some husbands and wives are not responsible enough to take up these responsibilities so appreciate the tasks performed by your spouse and encourage him or her to do more. DO NOT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED!
A couple that appreciates each other on a daily basis for all the little or big things eventually develops a culture of gratitude within their marriage. Appreciation in marriage goes a long way towards making one feel adored and esteemed.
You can show appreciation by dropping lovely notes of gratitude, sweet notes of thanks in his/her pockets,lunch bag, computer bag, on the dashboard of the car, car seat or any place familiar. . These simple words when stumbled upon lift one’s spirit and make daily efforts seem more worthwhile.
Other ways of showing appreciation is through little gestures, like hugging or a peck on the lips(kisses)when saying hello and goodbye, good morning and good night. Show your partner that you genuinely care.
You can take your spouse out for lunch or dinner. A pleasant date is a considerable way to say thank you to your husband or wife for everything he or she has done. Make that time all about your spouse.
Buy gifts no matter how small or inexpensive what matters is the motive behind that gesture. Buy something your spouse would like to have then attach a little note of thanks. Maybe your husband has been admiring a watch or set of cufflinks, or maybe your wife her eyes on a human hair
she hasn’t bought for herself. This could be the perfect opportunity to get it for him or her.
Prepare special dishes. A special meal that you hardly make.
Let the night be amorous, different styles.
Appreciation in marriage is a key ingredient for a happy marriage. As you know, negative things are easy to find, but we have to look for the positive things and appreciate.
If you have other ways of showing appreciation to your husband or wife. Let us know. One can always learn from you.